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Ever find it interesting how googling "Adam Lambert" produces more results about his supposed homosexuality than videos of his performances? Message boards are being bombarded by posts of "omg, adam is gay." News stories are even being written about this rumor. Well here's something new for you: I think the main reason these assumptions are being made is simply good gossip and drama. Take a talented, unique man from a popular television show and make him out to be gay just because he's a little different. Because looking at the evidence, it's impossible for me to see Adam as completely gay.
What evidence, you may ask? Well first let's look at the obvious. Adam is constantly sporting skinny jeans, makeup, nail polish and heels. This might sound like an argument for the opposite side, but if you really think about it, does this sound like any gay friend you may have? This is the "gay" STERYOTYPE. We've all seen guys like Adam at school or in our neighborhoods. Makeup and nail polish for men is becoming incredibly popular, as are skinny jeans. These men are often considered gay, but most gay people I know dress and act perfectly regular, unlike the outrageous Adam Lambert.
Next I'll address those racy photos of him (assuming they aren't fake, of course). Let me just be the first to say that kissing someone of your gender does NOT make you gay. Experimenting is all the rage these days, especially for young people. Don't tell me you've never gotten a bit tipsy at a party and get into some crazy situations.
I've also heard rumors that Adam has a boyfriend. But guess what? His friends have been quoted saying that Adam has had girlfriends as well. What bothers me is that in order to be more dramatic, people completely overlook the whole bi-sexual possibility. And to be honest, most people aren't totally gay or straight, they're somewhere in the middle. So let's not use the term "gay" when referring to anybody unless you're absolutely sure of it. Bi-sexual and homosexual are two very different things.
Finally I will touch (but not dwell) on Adam's relationship with fellow Idol contestant Allison Iraheta. I mean let's face it guys, the attraction was there. Besides, how many times have we heard the "she's like a little sister" excuse? Most likely, Adam and Allison were just friends, but undeniably very flirty ones.
The point of this was not to make myself sound like a fangirl or a homophobic. I am just simply pointing out that we shouldn't steryotype or start rumors, because there's always another side to the story.


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Anonymous SO WHAT 0 Jun 6 2009, 9:45 PM EDT by Anonymous
 
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I'm Bi and I don't care what other think of me. I really don't think that Adam is GAY. I hate how the world is alway making a big deal out of some thing so little. I have seen video and picture of Adam with Girls. People you need to remember Adam was in show buz before he was on AL. He was in THE Zodiac Show and they all where dress up in make-up. BIG DEAL. There are a lot of Guy's who like to painted their nail Black and hang out with other guy ,does that Make them gay also . Some people in this world are not bother by showing a little love and respect to other. I see Adam as a down to earth guy who is just trying to make a living at singing and it really bad that he can't even walkout his front door with out some one sticking something in his face. Or chase in' him down the road in his Car. Everyone need to STOP before this makes Adam have a accident and hurt his self or someone else.
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TwoFlowers Oh please! 0 Jun 2 2009, 3:55 PM EDT by TwoFlowers
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This is getting worse by the day with all of the speculation and accusations. Allison was all of 17 years old and he is 27. OK yeah so what you say. He answered that question several times and gave a straight answer. She was like his little sister and he was a mentor to her. So WHAT? Because you like someone and are seen with them often just chillin' or having fun means you have something going with them. This stuff is so drama drama drama. What else is next I can't wait to see it!
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miss_julie so what 1 May 27 2009, 8:30 AM EDT by adam_L_superfan
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so what if adam lambert is gay what is the issue there? he is free soul, independent and loaded with talents
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